We come to OUB.

• We join many Chats and many Groups.
• One day we realize that it’s too much work to follow all of them.

What to do?

• Stay in / on those that we have most desire for.
• Leave those that we have least desire for.

There is a protocol for leaving a Chat.

• Think of it as being like going home after a Party at someone’s house.
• You were invited.
• You came.
• You enjoyed yourself.
• Now it’s time to leave.
• Say goodnight to everyone before you go.
• Thank your host.
• In other words, make a polite and gracious exit. 😊

We are family.

• You may have an issue with someone or something in OUB.
• You may be tempted to leave OUB.
• Explain to your family what is going on.

If you have an issue with a brother take it to them.

• Be assertive and honoring.
• Or deal with it yourself.

Don’t just walk out on family.

• It takes time to build strong relationships.
• Those relationships are of great value.
• Relationships are worth saving.
• The Body of Christ is made up of relationships.

You can always take a break for a while.

• Let your family know that you are taking a break.
• Come back refreshed after the break.

Chats and Groups are meant to build family.

• Try not to look at them as just being a resource for you.
• If you see that something needs to be changed state your concern.
• Bring suggested solutions.
• Take your share of responsibility for the Chat or the Group.